1. You shall constantly, unreservedly and unashamedly come 2nd. Simply placing this available to you. He will do have more relationships that are intense his bandmates than he will ever have to you. You’re going to be fallen at a second’s notice whenever their guitarist is ‘feeling meh’, or their bassist’s gerbil diedвЂ¦or he’s been provided a bonus one to a gig where he HATES the band but there is a contact that is schmoozable. If you complain concerning this, you are massively selfish, FYI.